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Deborah Demander's avatar

Another excellent article. I'm in my mid-fifties. Last week, some friends invited us to a bar to watch another friend perform with his band.

I haven't been to a bar in ages. The vibes were so off. It was interesting to be there as an observer with no agenda.

As you noted, there was an energy of desperation and "Please notice me."

I wish we could be more our authentic selves, bringing to the table our gifts, without expectation. Trusting that who needs to find us will, wherever we are. Realizing that what is not meant for us will not appear.

I appreciate your work.

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Nicole Sciacca's avatar

OMGOODNESS. yes. this. thank you so much for your thoughts here. It's a wild to observe. I appreciate YOU!

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